Friday, 13 November 2009

  • Q and A with Sonlay

    I think it is time for me to finally answer the questions from my last blog 'Questions for Sonlay'. I enjoyed all the questions that were asked so here are my answers! BTW if you would still like to ask me a question, you may. I will just update the blog with your question and my answer later.

    mncjl: Where do I send your card this year? :P




    Sonychak: First off let me say thank you for sending me a Christmas card last year. It made me smile because I never get Christmas cards that are specifically addressed to me. So thank you! But yeah you should be able to send it to the same address as last year. If you forgot about it already just message me and I will send it to you through there. I don't want to give my address out here. There might be some wanting to send me anthrax or something.





    Beckbites:     what was your most memorable day spent with your girlfriend?








    Sonychak    : Oddly my most memorable moment with my girlfriend wasn't a romantic moment. Instead it was a moment where I felt incredibly embarrassed.

    The moment happened last year during winter break. My girlfriend and I just started going out and I was back home at my parent's place for winter break. My girlfriend was missing me so I decided to drive back to San Francisco (where she lives and where I go to school) to see her for the day.

    The drive is about an hour to an hour and a half away from my house. I decided to leave early in the morning so I could avoid traffic. Problem is though... my body is accustomed to going poo in the morning so when I was half way through the drive... my stomach kicked in telling my butt that it was time to go poo!  My butt clenched, my face was spazzing out, my body was ready to explode. The closer and closer I got to her house the more I was freaking out. I even freaked out and called her asking, "Can I use your bathroom when I get there?!"

    When I finally reached to her house, I popped out of my car and ran inside. She led me toward a bathroom and I did my thang. Right after, I come back out and I see her sitting there waiting. When we started walking toward the door to leave, I reached in my pockets and noticed something... my car keys were missing! So right when I got out of the house I saw my car keys were inside the car with the car still on. I freaked out and went "Oh Nooo!" I just drove over for an hour and locked my car keys in the car. The only spare keys I had were back at my parent's place.

    I was freaking out and realized I had to do something I didn't want to do... I had to break into my car with a clothes hanging wire. I went all Macgyver and wrapped two wires together and squeezing it into my window while I had a screw driver making a gap. However, the sad thing was... I was unable to get the door switch  opened for about 45 minutes. I was freaking out and my girlfriend was just laughing at me.

    Thing is the worse didn't happened yet... after 30 minutes or so my girlfriend's mom came out of the house to see what was wrong. I have never met her before so I was introduced to her mom at the worst timing. She met me for the first time when I was freaking out about how I locked myself out of my car. It was quite memorable and it made me embarrassed for life.

    I eventually did get the door to open, but it was the most embarrassing moment I ever had with my girlfriend, which I today consider our most memorable moment.

    Just_another_life_of_a_girl:     do you have to poop at the same time everyday?



    Sonychak    : Yes, most of my poops are at the same time everyday. My body has oddly adjusted to where it poops right after I wake up. These are usually on school days or days I have to wake up early. If it is a day where I can relax and be lazy in the morning, I tend to poo in the afternoon. My body is odd and I wish it wasn't. I wish I could just poo at moments where I am free and available to poo. Not poo when I have to get ready or do something. It is quite a frustrating butt hole.





    JustPlainMorgie:     That bottom right photo... was there a purpose to that hairstyle?

    I was about to say do you eat rice, because I have an unnatural obsession with rice and then i realized that might seem racist. But it's not, I promise.




    Sonychak: If you readers don't know she is referring toward this picture. 

    The reason for that picture was that I just popped out of the shower and noticed that my hair can stick up and look odd. I have been growing my hair about 4-5 months around the time that photo was taken so I wanted to take a picture to show the world how long it has gotten. Sadly, my hair length isn't that long anymore. My hair style is back to being either buzzed or bald. Oh, I miss that hair.

    Now for the second question. Yes, I do eat rice. I eat rice with most of my meals. I don't know if it is because I am Asian or just because I love how rice can be fulfilling. I eat fried rice, burritos with rice, microwaveable chimichangas with rice. You name it, I eat most of my stuff with rice. I even make scrambled eggs and eat it with rice and ketchup. And BTW don't worry. I didn't find it racist.


    chenmeicai: Would you ever considering cosplaying? LOL. :p





    Sonychak: I am not big on cosplays mostly because I am not big on anime and because when I attended one I felt awkward when strangers wanted to 'Glomp' me, but to be honest... I would cosplay if I could be one of these three certain characters.




     

    Sakuragi from 'Slam Dunk'



    Detective Conan from 'Detective Conan'



    or Onizuka from 'Great Teacher Onizuka


    Rob_of_the_Sky: What's on your cap in your profile pic?



    Sonychak: The logo on my cap is actually an Oakland A's logo. I am not big on baseball, but they make awesome caps. I am also not a San Francisco Giants fan even though I live in SF. I am more of a fan of the A's.





    jeannie_dot_com: you do slouch when you poop? :D






    Sonychak: Of course, I slouch. Who doesn't? It helps the flow of the poo come out of your buttox easier. Do you slouch Jeannie? I bet you grunt while you poo too, haha.





    subaru3169: hmm..  new knight rider or old??




    Sonychak: I honestly have yet to watch either show. The only experience I have of the old one is from 'I love the ___" episodes on VH1 and commercials for the new one. I would however have to choose the old one. It drove the Hoff and I bet it shagged with more ladies than the new one ever has.




    elelkewljay:

    1) what organizations are you involved with at sfsu?
    2) what inspires your hair styles?
    3) what's the one thing that your gf does that gets you to do anything she asks?


    Sonychak:

    1) I used to be affiliated with the 'Asian Student Union' at SFSU when I first started out. This year I don't really associate with the club much, reason is because new people, new core, new generation of members. We oldies have mostly left and are too busy to still be in it. But to be honest, a lot of the new members kinda annoy me and there are some who are still childish.

    2) My hairstyles? Haha, what hairstyles? I currently just buzz my hair. I have no style... I just do this because it is easy to take care of. I would love however to get writings on my buzz cuts like 'Sonlay Owns You'. It would be awesome.

    3) Is when she guilt trips me that gets me. She says she "unintentionally" guilt trips me, but I feel like she purposely is at times. When she does that, it gets me to do anything. It is easy to make me feel guilty.


    RoadlessTaken: Which Xangan would you go gay for?  hahaha







    Sonychak: Gosh, always have to choose the difficult and awkward questions huh Alex? Well I guess I would choose... Parry Shen. Mostly because he was the actor from 'Better Luck Tomorrow'.







    xchinkylaydee:     What type of asian are you? and .. do you think boba is awesome?








    Sonychak: I still don't know what you mean by this? Haha. But I guess I am the type of Asian who doesn't know how to speak his parent's native tongue yet understands it. I guess I am a rare breed that can only comprehend the language, but has difficulty speaking it back. It has it goods sides and bad sides.

    And yes I do like boba! Especially when it is with mango or bananas!




    idrinkvitasoy:
    1) Why are you so cool?
    2) Do you think you are pretty?
    3) Ass or tits?






    Sonychak:
    1) My uncle is secretly Denzel Washington. I got my cool genes from that bad mama jamma.
    2) I think I am more than pretty. I think I am quite the stud muffin.
    3) Ass... I don't know why, but I love grabbing onto those rather than tits. Nothing against tits. I love boobies too, but a great butt is rarer to find than a pair of boobs I think.




    karoline1982:     so....Whats your number?! Haha! JK! I'm going to ask something simple: Whats your favourite colour? Why is it your favourite?







    Sonychak: My favorite color is yellow and it is my favorite because I always digged it since I was little. I was the type of child who wanted to be different and liked things that weren't common. Plus yellow is sweet.







    theRyeCatcher: If you could be in any cartoon, what would it be? And what do you think about these new cartoons?!





    Sonychak: If I could be in any cartoon I would be in... Pokemon. Having a pet and then battling others for badges would be awesome. I of course would go on dates with Misty too. And for new ones... some are okay, but a lot are terrible. The only new one I like that makes me laugh is 'Sponge Bob Square Pants'.




    noreen_n:     how old are you?







    Sonychak: I am currently 21 years old. I am actually going to be turning 22 on January 3rd. It is crazy to think over how old I am now. I still feel like I am 18. Oh, I hate growing old.







    Sincerely_Winnie:     If you could go to ONE place in the world right now, where would you go?








    Sonychak: I really want to go the Easter Islands. I don't know why, but I want to see those huge head stone sculptures before I die. It might be a short trip, but they look incredibly awesome. Plus the land looks beautiful!










    Bamzilicious26:    Are you hungry?

    What's the weirdest thing you've done?

    Are there any super random/secret things you do on a daily basis that you wouldn't usually let the public know about? (like i like to take the laptop in the bathroom with me to use and keep me occupied :P)

    Sonychak: Yes, I am currently hungry right now. I am actually making Chicken Adobo for the family tonight since I am at my parent's for the weekend.

    Weirdest thing? I ate cooked bugs, live shrimp, turtle eggs, and drank duck blood.

    I secretly talk to people online while I take poos. I also secretly answer my phone when I am pooing too. I usually don't tell them until I flush the toilet, haha.


    xpokerface90: Would you like to see the sunrise or sunset? and why?






    Sonychak: I like watching sunsets over sunrises. The reason is because I find the sky prettier when it is going down rather than when it is coming up. It just makes me feel warm and comfortable. Plus I don't have to wake up early for sunsets.




    frozencherries: do you like any weird foods/weird food combinations? do you prefer odd or even numbers? do you play sudoku? can you hoola-hoop? can you sing? can you draw?  are my questions too late?


    Sonychak: I honestly love eating weird foods, especially when they are ones that gross others here in America. Whenever I travel outside of the U.S. I try to always eat something that is different from the American culture. It is adventurous and exciting.

    I prefer odd numbers... I guess...

    No, I do not play sudoku. Was never my thing. Tetris is more of a puzzle game I enjoy playing.

    I can hula hoop... for about 5 hip movements. After that, not really.


    You didn't see my video from when I sang to my girlfriend at karaoke? I have a terrible voice, but I enjoy karaoking.

    Sonlay Singing to Michelle from ATM on Vimeo.

    No, I cannot draw. I can write a sweet signature though! and no your questions are not late.

    xyummyxnoodlesx:
    If you ran out of toilet paper, would you
    1) skip it and finish up
    2) run out with pants down to find some
    3) wipe with anything near
    4) wash it off

    Sonychak:
    I would probably wipe with anything near. Anything to get the remains off my butt is a friend to me. I wish you gave the option of calling out for help because I would probably do that.






    Thank you for the people who participated by asking me questions. If you would still like to ask me a question, go for it. I will try to answer it and post it up on this same blog later.


    Later Days...



Tuesday, 10 November 2009

  • Questions for Sonlay

    I feel like I haven't had much to blog about lately and that I've been neglectful to xanga so what I decided to do is to let you readers ask me any questions you would like. Many xangans have done this earlier and I decided to finally jump onto this bandwagon because to be frank... I want to blog about something it is just I don't have any ideas on what to blog about so this is my solution.

    So ask your questions away Xangans! Just don't ask for my number ladies... I'm a taken man.

    Pictures

    Later Days...

Wednesday, 04 November 2009

  • I like to compete in stupid activities

    I don't know about you, but I am competitive. So competitive that I like to compete in stupid activities.

    Today in my lab for 'Intro to Research Psych' class we had to do experiments. Every group in our class has to make an experiment and report about it in a paper by the end of the semester. And since we have to make experiments, everyone in the class must participate in an experiment for every group.

    In one of the groups, I was paired with two other classmates. We had to sit in a chair position with our back against the wall.

    In the experiment, one of my classmates immediately stopped, but this other guy and I were still going at it. We kept looking at each other and joking about the other wanting to quit and how the other is probably cramping up. We were supposed to stay in that position until we started feeling uncomfortable, but my classmate and I went about 5 minutes straight without wanting to quit. He evnetually gave up and that is when I decided to stop.

    Funny thing is... we had to do it again two minutes later. We were unaware of this in the experiment so we were like when they said we had to do it again. And of course... I beat him again. We cramped up fast this time, but I didn't let loose until he decided to give up. I won my bragging rights and felt superior for the day.

    (We were told that we were the longest they had so far in the experiment. Like 2-3 times longer than the other classmates)


    Oh I love to compete in stupid activities

    Later Days...

Tuesday, 03 November 2009

  • My Roommate Left Me a Gift Sunday Night

    To my surprise, my roommate left me a gift in the kitchen Sunday Night.



    How cute, it was even wrapped.



    Oh there's my gift...!

    You want to know how I know it was from him? I know because I heard his thumper feet walking in the hallway dropping this dish off at the kitchen. I also know it is him because him and I were the only roommates home at that hour.

    He's 26 years old and still knows how to be a filthy child.

    Later Days...

    P.S. I cleaned that shit for him because he ended up not coming back out from his room, but instead went to sleep.

Monday, 02 November 2009

  • Potential Bay Area Xanga Meet (Update 2.0)

    First, let me start off by saying I am going to call this Potential Xanga Meet the 'Bay Area Xanga Meet' rather than the 'Nor Cal Xanga Meet' for now on based me feeling that Nor Cal is being misrepresented in this title because of the meet specifically being in San Francisco (the center of the Bay Area) rather than further up in Nor Cal.

    Second, I think I have finalized two days we can choose from for this Xanga Meet.

    We can either pick:
    1) December 27th, 2009, Sunday

    or

    2) December 28th, 2009, Monday

    or

    3) We can hang out both December 27th and 28th, 2009.

    The Event:

    1) Lunch (possibly at Fisherman's Wharf)
    2) Night Tour at Alcatraz @ 4:20 PM
    3) Going to a bar called Chug Pub right after the night tour for the 21+ Xangans


    Fisherman's Wharf


    My future apartment, Alcatraz

     
    My favorite bar, Chug Pub. See that thing in the middle? That is a 'Chug Tower' and it holds about 9-10 pints of beer for only $30. You also get a free choice of fries or nachos.

    I don't mind doing either one because on both days I will still be in San Francisco. If you would like to choose another day and if majority agree, I don't mind changing it, but for now it looks like these two days are the options I would like us to vote on.

    I know for sure my friend and I will be doing the night tour so if some of you are worried that the event won't go down. Don't worry because I will for sure be on that boat to Alcatraz. I also know that Thu aka elelkewljay and Alex aka RoadlessTaken will be coming.


    This picture will probably make 75% of female xangans want to come to this event now.


    This xangan will probably make 80% of men from xanga want to come to this event now.

     
    This picture for a fact make 96% of xangans want to come now.

    So if you could please comment on what day you would prefer (that includes voting for both days if you would like), if you are able to come, if you can do lunch, night tour, bar, or all three, and rec this blog so others could read this and confirm if they are attending or not.

    If you confirm and we get a definite date I will message you personally the website and how to register for tickets for the Night Tour.

    I will be updating the list of people confirming every hour or so, but I won't time stamp this blog so by rec'ing this blog it will help others to be able to see this blog.

    Confirmed:
    - Sonychak
    - Sonychak's Beezy aka girlfriend aka Michelle
    - Sonychak's Homie aka Gian (Pronounced John)
    - RoadlessTaken
    - Elelkewljay
    - jeannie_dot_com
    - xlove_me_alwaysx
    - Lithium98
    - flipguy31o
    - subaru3169

    On the Fence:
    - idrinkvitasoy
    - luvs_u
    - hilaw
    - xlcrmlx
    - xchinkylaydee
    - h20poloplayinsurfer
    - bigaslives
    - mi1kandcerea1

    Later Days...

Sunday, 01 November 2009

  • My Couples Costume Idea

    Yesterday, was obviously Halloween. The time of dressing up, getting candy, dressing slutty, getting drunk, you name it. However, this year my girlfriend and I didn't go out due to her having to go home early and me having to study for my midterm next week.

    We were at 'Beach Burrito' yesterday and she brought up the idea of wanting to do a couples costume next year. I am kind of indifferent on the idea because it is kind of dumb, but also intriguing the same time. So I tried to think of the funniest couple costume idea we could do for next year. I already told Noreen, justplainmorgie, and npr32486 already, but I decided to share it in a blog.

    Here is what I said:


    "Babe we should do a Disney couple. Do you know the movie 'Sleeping Beauty'?"



    "Well I can be the Prince..."



    "And you could be Maleficent, the Witch, from the movie!"



    "You don't have to be that either, you could also be the dragon she turns into!"



    "Either way you would be a character that DIES!"

    ----------------------------------------------

    She gave the while I said this all to her, but thankfully she laughed hard at the end while choking on her burrito. So be prepared for next year xangans. I think this idea is a keeper!

    Later Days...

    EDIT::


    My girlfriend actually found a costume for Maleficent.


Thursday, 29 October 2009

  • Walk in Her Heels + Thriller Dance

    Today we had another event on campus for my volunteer work. Today's event was called 'Walk in Her Heels'. In this event, we get male students on campus to wear heels throughout the school day. The goal of this is for us to put men in women's shoes and experience what a woman has to feel. We are mostly focused on us preventing assault especially to women so we make men realize how hard it is for women. We aren't making of fun of women in this event, but just letting men experience another person's perspective. (FYI I did not wear high heels...)

    The day was very fun and we had a good turn out. We had males dance off in heels, men performing the choreography of 'Single Ladies' by Beyonce, a frat doing a stomp stroll, and zombies on stage dancing to Thriller.

    Yes, I said it... Zombies! Today happened to be the same day where it was the zombie event where students dressed up as zombies and ran around campus. There was a lot and at one point they danced in the quad to Thriller. It was pretty epic.

    Photo Order:
    1. Male dance off in heels
    2. Men performing to Single Ladies
    3. Frat Stomp Stroll
    4. Zombies dancing to thriller



     
    One of the performers for the event


    One of our Peer Educators


    All the men on stage who participated




    Dance off by three of the males


    The winner of the competition. He won a sash and the high heels he was wearing.


    Jeff and Vincent dancing to 'Single Ladies' by Beyonce










    Male Fraternity doing their stroll stomp






    Zombies dancing to 'Thriller'









     



    Later Days...

    UPDATE:: I found a video online of the two guys dancing to 'Single Ladies' in heels.



Wednesday, 28 October 2009

  • Presented Two Workshops Today

    I just finished my day of presenting two workshops in two classrooms. If you weren't already aware, I volunteer for a program called CEASE, which stands for 'Creating Empowerment through Alcohol and Substance abuse Education' at my university. This is my second semester with the group and I have been taking a leadership role this semester unlike like last year.

    In this volunteer work we do events on campus, help students who need help with alcohol or drug abuse, referrals, workshops, etc. We do a lot on campus. This semester however we are taking a leadership role where peers and I go into classrooms and present workshops to students.

    Today I presented two. One was at 8:45-9:45 AM and the second one was 2:45-3:45 PM. The audience was mostly freshmen and sophmores so it was quite frustrating at times when we were presenting.

    Our workshop:

    1) Power shuffle: Where we ask questions and the students walk from one side of the room to the other side. (i.e., Have you or do you know anyone that prevented someone from being sexually assaulted who was intoxicated?)

    We do this so students get an idea of that they aren't alone. Show that there are others who have experienced what they have.

    2) Pong Jeopardy: Peers and I created a game where we associated facts and learning with beer pong. The goal is to obvioiusly have all your cups removed, but in order to you have to make the cup and answer a question correctly. If you do not the cup stays and you have to try to get it again in order to answer it with the correct answer. It isn't difficult so usually students complete this within 15 minutes.

    We do this so students just think over these questions and think them over in the future. Plus it is interaction.

    3) DUI Cards: We show students these DUI cards we have where it shows you how many beverages of alcohol can make you get a DUI. So there is a weight on these cards that tell you how much.

    We do this because students are usually unaware of how much they need to drink to get a DUI.

    4) Personal Speeches

    I enjoy this part this most. In this section we share our personal stories of how we have been impacted by alcohol or drugs. I enjoy this part usually because this is when everyone STFU and listens. Our stories are usually very powerful and makes all the students stop joking around and listen. So I enjoyed this the most because I get to share my story of my Alcohol Poisoning event to students. I am in this group so I can help students from preventing from doing what I did. This is why I am glad I get to do that part the most in our workshops.

    Later Days...

    P.S. I hate students who aren't respectful to presenters... there was one group who were chatty, on their laptops, cell phones, checking their make up, leaving the room while we presented. Ugh, pissed me off. I wanted to throw a shoe at them or something.

    P.S.S. It felt good at the end when people approached me to tell me that they enjoyed me sharing my story. It feels good to hear.

Monday, 26 October 2009

  • Parent's random car argument

    I love my family, but damn they have random arguments.

    ::Mom discusses about remembering to do something, which my father forgot::

    Dad: Thank god!
    Mom: Thank god?!
    Dad: Yeah, thank god.
    Mom: You should thank me.
    Dad: I thank god for making you my wife because I forgot and if you weren't here it would have been bad.
    Mom: Why didn't you say that then?
    Dad: Because it was too long. Thank god is shorter.
    Mom: Aww shaaad up.
    Dad: Do you believe in god?
    Mom: No
    Dad: Aww no, you're an outsider.

    They argue like an old couple.

    Later Days...

Friday, 23 October 2009

  • I got my web cam back

    If you didn't know, my laptop received a virus weeks ago. Because of that I have been using my Dad's laptop for school. It sucked because it didn't feel the same, I couldn't play my HD movies, and I couldn't do web cam.

    Well I finally got it back! The reboot CD finally arrived and my laptop is all ready to go! So what is the first thing I do with it back in my hands?

    Web cam with Michelle


    The funny thing is that she didn't know I was taking photos of our web cam session so here are some of the funny things she did.



    The signature puppy ears with a Sonlay sad open mouth pose



    Showing her grills



    Michelle's reaction when she found out that I have been taking photos of our web cam.

    Oh I'm an ass...


    Later Days...

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